
Payment FAQ
Please, select the subject of your question.
- What do I pay for using this site?
- How will it cost me?
- Why do you charge men $ 7.00 to open emails from women?
- How do I keep track of my account Balance?
- How do I pay?
- Is it possible to send money to your Bank account?
- I want to pay for your service through Western Union or Money Gram, because I am afraid to give my bank account details to a Ukrainian bank.
- I have paid for sending e-mail, but I have "no Credits available". Why?
- I had a friend send you money by pay pal for credits on my account. He told me that he made the payment on my account. But the credits do not show up on my account. How long will it take update?
- It seems to me that I am being deducted 2 credits for each letter I send, when it should be one?
- When I open a letter and read it I am charged a credit. Ok, but if I close it and the answer it later will I be charged again for the same letter?
- I paid with Pay Pal yesterday, but my funds are still not on my account, why?
- How I will it take for credits to be added to my account if I use western union or MoneyGram?
- Are you a Pay pal Verified member?
What do I pay for using this site?
You pay for every letter from a woman you open, every letter you send to a woman, every address of a woman you order, you also pay for a postal address if you are not a member, you also pay for every additional photo you send to a woman, and for every additional photo a woman sends you, which you agree to pay for, you also pay for all gift and flowers you order along with other services you wish to use.
How will it cost me?
You purchase units called Bride Credits. You can purchase as many credits you like so that you do not have to use your credit card each time you want to send or receive e-mail, photo, or buy an address. Your account at is debited for each e-mail, photo or address order. You can view a history of your credit activity at any time at the "Payment History" section of your account. The price for 1 Bride Credit (consequently, cost of a letter, an additional photo ) depends on how many Bride Credits you buy at one time - the more credits you buy at once, the less sending/opening a letter, sending/receiving an additional photo, ordering a postal address will cost you - Please, consult our price list for more details.
Why do you charge men $ 7.00 to open emails from women?
There are many other agencies that allow for free correspondence so why would I use your agency? I've seen a few women on your site that I'm interested in, but I'm not going to pay 7.99 to write them an email. You should allow for free correspondence and focus on booking tours for the men and make your money that way. You can reduce the price of the letters by buying multiple credits; this will reduce the price of the letter to, besides the cost of translation is included. If our services are expensive for you, you can search for a cheaper web-site that offer you unlimited correspondence ( like dating sites and membership personals) for a small monthly membership fee, but take into consideration that free web-sites are not free of scammers and a lot of them are the scammers themselves ( we have caught a few sites our selves stealing photos from us )- women place their profiles there themselves, via internet, and no one checks women's identity; As for the focusing on the tours we do not run Social tours as they are not the way to meet a women also personal tours are not big business and I have staff that needs to make a living, That's why we choose "pay-per-letter" work and personal services in stead of organizing tours.
How do I keep track of my account Balance?
The Balance of your account is displayed on the "welcome" page (the first page you see right after you log in into your account). Every letter you write or read, every photo you send or receive etc every credit you spend is reflected in your "payment history" - you can check it any time you like.
How do I pay?
You can pay for our services using your credit card (Visa, MasterCard, Amex and discover card) or you can use an e-check. Do not be worry about using your credit card online - we accept payments with Multicards and Pay Pal - choose the one that suits you better. If it would be more convenient for you, you can also pay by money transfer (Western Union, Money Gram) Contact us for details on making payments that way...
Is it possible to send money by Wire Transfer to your Bank account?
No, it is not possible to send money to our Bank account, the only alternative way is to payment is using Western Union or Money Gram.
I want to pay for your service through Western Union or Money Gram, because I am afraid to give my bank account details to a Ukrainian bank.
If it would be more convenient for you, you can pay by money transfer (Western Union, Money Gram). Again Contact us for details on making payments. That way but note, when you use credit card on-line you do not give details to a Ukrainian bank, you pay through secure payment server through Multicards, our Credit card processor from the Netherlands or you may choose Pay Pal they are both VeriSign safe!!
I have paid for sending e-mails, but I have "no credits available". Why?
The orders are processed automatically and funds are added to your account. The system recognizes you (the customer) by the e-mail address you registered with. If, when filling in the order form you gave a different e-mail address, the program notifies the web-site administrator that "the client was not found". In this case we try to find you by name and address and add funds to your account manually; if we do not succeed in finding the customer, we contact you by e-mail.
I had a friend send you money by pay pal for credits on my account. He told me that he made the payment on my account. But the credits do not show up on my account. How long will it take update?
The system is automatic and finds your account by e-mail. If the payment was made by your friend, the system received his e-mail address instead (the one he uses for his pay pal account) and did not find your account with this e-mail address in our database. Lease, give us your friends e-mail (the one he used for making payment), and we will credit the funds to your account. Usually, if the e-mail address for Pay Pal is the same in our database funds are added to account almost instantly.
It seems to me that I am being deducted 2 credits for each letter I send, when it should be one?
That is not possible - the system works automatically, credits are deducted automatically for each letter you read and each letter you send. Besides, every letter you send or read is recorded in your payment history. BUT If you find out that you were charged twice for the same letter, please, contact us - we will check and refund the credit if you where charged for duplicate letters.
When I open a letter and read it I am charged a credit. Ok, but if I close it and the answer it later will I be charged again for the same letter?
Never. If you opened a letter once, the status of the letter is changed to "opened" and you will be never charged for reading it again.
I paid with Pay Pal yesterday, but my funds are still not on my account, why?
Usually funds are added to account automatically right after your payment is made. But if you have paid with eCheck. The eCheck Payment remains "Uncleared" until the funds have cleared from your account, which usually takes 4 to 5 business days. We will not deliver items or credit accounts until the funds have cleared into our account. That's why you have to wait until your e-check payment is cleared. However, we add funds manually to those customers who regularly pay us. After your first 5 payment with us is cleared successfully.
How I will it take for credits to be added to my account if I use western union or MoneyGram?
It will take about 6 to 12 hours for this because of time differences between Ukraine and other countries and are only added during normal office hours. (Because we need to go receive the money)
Are you a Pay pal Verified member?
Yes! We are you will find our official seal from Pay Pal on the home page of all our sites www.abridefromodessa.com and our gift site http://cart.odessajudies.com/ and our affiliate sites www.odessajudies.com and www.odessarents.com






